8 Reasons Making The First Move Is The Best Idea You’ve Had

3. Breaking the stereotype

Many girls think that guys should make the first move. It’s high time we break this stereotype. In fact, a guy should feel fortunate to find a girl who knows what she wants. Guys should make a note that girls who make the first move are not desperate. It’s just that they are smart and have no patience for the ‘pehle aap’ game.

4. Don’t let your friends judge you

When you tell your friends that you like someone, they make it a point to force their opinion on you. Your bestie will suggest you ‘show attitude’, while a good friend will tell you to do ‘what your heart says’. When you tell them you were the first one to ‘ping’, 99 percent of your friends will judge you for doing so. Don’t feel bad – you did what you felt was right.