How do you know if he is your forever kind of love or one of those relationships that oh-so sadly end up in heartbreak? I wish there were some signboards which could warn us beforehand - ‘clingy’, ‘as*hole’, ‘heartbreaker’, ‘emotional mess’ and ‘Happily ever after’ – and save us from all the heartaches that we have either been through or are about to go through. Us women want our lives to be well drawn out - to meet the ONE who is made for us, rather than falling in and out of love a few times. But as the popular saying goes, “You will get to know the ONE who is made for you when you meet HIM and who will look like the rest of your life.” So with that in mind, here are a few signs that’ll let you know say he is the forever kind of guy: 1. He supports your dreams. He believes in you and your visions, rather than rubbishing them off when they appear to be too unrealistic or impractical. But aren’t dreams supposed to be like that? Aren’t they supposed to be BIG and SCARY? He brings out the best in you and helps you realize your full potential because he believes that true love means growing together and being the best versions of ourselves. 2. He wants to sort things out, rather than reaching for the door during an argument or a fight. He makes an effort to talk things out after a fight, he wants to know the things that upset you and make up to you in ways that make you feel respected and heard. 3. He respects your opinions and choices. He knows that you have an identity of your own, that you are opinionated, you have choices and preferences; and so he is good with accepting a ‘no’ from you. He is definitely not one of those who enforce their own likes/dislikes, opinions, ideas and decisions down your throat. 4. He makes you feel like his ‘woman’. No matter how independent and strong you are, he doesn’t forget to make you feel like his woman. Maybe it is a special celebratory dinner after a promotion, a hug that feels like home after a long tiring day at work, or making sure your favourite flowers are waiting on the desk on your birthday, he doesn’t fail to make you feel important or valued. 5. He wants to know how your day went. He is genuinely interested in knowing how your day went - the peaks and the lows. He actually listens and helps you to unwind all of your stress. It's not just about spending time with you, he’s also knee in knowing how you’re doing, whether you’re keeping well and if you’re happy. 6. He makes you feel beautiful and secure with him. No matter how many women are drawn to him, his attention remains on the woman he loves. He gives you the security you want from your man. No matter how unattractive you feel on certain days, he makes you feel like the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. 7. And finally, he is proud to have you in his life. Last but certainly not the least, he is not afraid to show you off in front of his friends, values you for who you are and doesn’t try to change you according to his sense of morality.