So, did you catch the attention of that hot guy you met at a party last night, but don’t know what to do next? Is there a gorgeous woman in your office who has being stealing your attention, but you don’t want to make the first move because you fear coming across as a desperado?
Well, many-a-times we worry about appearing or coming across as being desperate, even after doing harmless things such as merely complimenting someone or just initiating a conversation.
As such, in order to make sure that you don’t start worrying about such frivolous things, here are seven gestures that won’t make you look desperate, at least to sane people:
1. Complimenting someone.
While you may think that complimenting someone might make you look too suggestive, it’s actually super se*y and also indicative of the fact that you are self-assured enough to make someone else feel good about themselves.
So the next time you find someone attractive, don’t hesitate to compliment them, for it might just make their day a little brighter.
2. Inviting them to an outing with your gang of friends.
If you’re planning to hit the club or go out on a casual dinner date with your besties, why don’t you ask him/her to join you and your friends for that outing?
No, doing so wouldn’t make you look needy or desperate, rather it’ll make you come across as being friendly and social.