20 Reminders That Prove It’s Okay To Be Directionless In Your 20s

17. Stop the ‘soul-mate’ hunting NOW.

The concept of soul-mates is perfect for an Aditya Chopra film but when it comes to reality, not so much. Stop ‘soul-mate’ hunting now! Stop judging everyone from the prism of your ‘soul-mate’. Things often fall in place when they’re meant to. Embrace ambiguity and let destiny and god decide.

18. Stop pushing the right people away because they’re different.

From your friends to the guy you started falling for, stop pushing people away because they fail to tick off the blocks on your check-list. We are not here to look for our ‘clones’. People will be different. If they show you their honest side, stop thwarting them for it. If you have pledged yourself to not change, at least let them be themselves?

19. Feeling ‘under-confident’ and ‘broken’ is completely normal.

Everyday won’t be a perfect day. There will be days when situations will make you feel less confident. There will be days when people will hurt you when you’ll least expect it. IT’S OKAY. You can’t hug yourself but you can always be kind enough to feel everything you want to. The only way to get over a feeling is to get into it. Feel and forget. There is a reason why you have a soul and heart.

20. Tiny little moments will always matter more than your planned adventures in life.

Feelings are temporary. If a friend wants to take you out for a coffee, go for it! Stop with the need to plan everything.